AGGRESSIVENESS OR EXPRESSIVENESS
These two words, Aggressiveness and Expressiveness, are the two different emanations of Emotions. The prior word gives a negative tinge and the latter represent itself in a cool and soothing formation, that to than, their source of origin has been from the mother word EMOTION.
At this point it is very interesting to distinguish that, when Emotion is depicted, in the aggressive behavior or else burst out in aggressiveness, than, in that situation there is lack of clarity or lucidity, also furthermore the effect is for a very short period moreover beside that unknown detrimental thoughts start get generated in the various persons minds.
Nevertheless when an emotion comes out in the form of expressive manner than the form of expressiveness reaches to masses or everyone in a clear manner, the approach is clear, also the effect is positive, in addition to the impression of the message, long last till an abandon of time.
Here with a very simple moreover quite easy example, we can understand that, our Voicecan have many modulations, but Shrill, Shriek in addition to Sweet are the category used by and large in the day to day routine.
In a very interesting manner, here the noticeable thing is that the first two i.e. Shrill and Shriek, hardly reaches to the individual to whom we are communicating, but the latter one i.e. Sweet, make us hard enough to commune our message to the concerned person, to whom we are interacting.
Now the big question arises that, how and through which manner the emotions depicted in the form of or way of aggressiveness could be converted into expressiveness, so that our thought or motive can easily and smoothly get into the heart of the person to whom we are communicating as well as interacting.
It is a quite much known fact that, it is difficult to mold and shape tree, rather than a plant. Yes, the answer lies in these lines only. Primary let us focus on children, from where the identity of the person begins.
If we observe that our child is aggressive in nature, than if we take a nice effort of coming ahead and encourage our child to express himself through creative and artistic means like- Drawing, Carry catchers, Poems and many more imaginative things like that, then possibility of modulating aggressive trend into expressive trend can be observed by us in coming time as the child start getting mature.
Now, of-course, the big segment i.e. ourselves come into the pipe line. It is for sure, that as because we are grown ups and had developed our own identity, so obviously we ourselves have to see as side by side that on which points or else rather say moments, we go aggressive. Furthermore how that rage of aggressiveness can be converted into expressiveness by us.
As no doubt, being mature, as a prime act, it is very easy for us to do our self analysis to avoid the situations, where we show our aggressiveness. But moreover, along with that we can start some further activities like – attain contentment from the food we are eating, feel the thoughtfulness of our near and dear ones, accomplish happiness on laughing loud on our childish acts, search out the opportunity to get dripping wet or dance in the light rain, break open at the adolescent smile of an child, Also not at all get shilly-shally to intone loudly in spite of the nodules getting quaver or shriek.
Yoga and Breathing also influences almost all aspects of us, it affects our mind, our moods and our body. One great way of relaxation is getting a massage. Another easy way to achieve relaxation is exercise. If we feel irritated or exerted than a simple half-hour of exercise will often settle things down.
Also try to make a challenge to lead a normal lifestyle and seek to enjoy the pleasures around us; all these gestures of ours will surely improve our personality At whatever time, if the life is felt in this framework, than we feel that clarity and purity start intensifying in our brainpower and as a result our existence and personality get improves and enhanced.
If we perceive as well as feel a bob-free breathing, a hassle free state of mind , a bug-free body, an ego-less heart and many much more never ending things like that, than we can observe a feel lightness and cheerfulness in our mood.
Therefore, when our scenario of seeing and feeling the surroundings changes, than all things look cheerful and seem delightful to us, thus the space for aggressiveness and agitation gets blanked and obviously the blank space is filled by creativity and expressiveness.